By Tony Martin
Editor
There are moments in life when the reality of our mortality confronts us with a force we can’t ignore. Watching someone we love walk through the valley of the shadow of death is one of those moments. It reminds us that our bodies are fragile, our time is limited, and no amount of human effort can stop the decline of a failing body. And yet, for the believer in Christ, death is not the end of the story — it’s the doorway to ultimate healing.
I’m writing this today with a heavy heart. A dear friend of mine has just been placed on hospice care after a battle with aggressive brain cancer. Her journey has stirred me to reflect deeply on what Scripture says about the hope we have in Christ. This isn’t just theory for me right now — it’s personal, and it’s real.
The Apostle Paul puts it beautifully in 2 Corinthians 5:8: “We are confident, I say, and would prefer to be away from the body and at home with the Lord.” For the follower of Jesus, to be absent from the body is not a tragedy; it is to be present with Him. In that instant, pain ceases, confusion vanishes, and disease is no more. Healing that our earthly doctors could never bring is finally complete.
The Reality of Ultimate Healing
We often pray for healing in this life — and sometimes God grants it. Other times, healing doesn’t come the way we hope. But for every believer, ultimate healing always comes. Revelation 21:4 gives us the picture: “He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.”
That verse isn’t just poetic comfort. It’s a promise. The day is coming when cancer, dementia, heart disease, and every affliction will bow to the authority of Jesus Christ. Our loved ones in Christ do not slip into darkness — they step into wholeness.
Grieving, But Not Without Hope
Now, let’s be honest. The hope of heaven doesn’t cancel out the pain of loss. Even Jesus, when He stood at the tomb of His friend Lazarus, wept (John 11:35). If the Son of God wept, we don’t need to apologize for our tears. Grief is not weakness; it is love with nowhere to go.
But Paul reminds us in 1 Thessalonians 4:13: “Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope.” Did you catch that? We do grieve, but we don’t grieve like those who have no hope. The difference is not in the presence of tears but in the presence of hope.
Hopelessness whispers that death is the end. Hope declares that death is swallowed up in victory (1 Corinthians 15:54). Hopelessness says, “I’ll never see them again.” Hope says, “This separation is temporary.” Hopelessness drains us. Hope anchors us.
How We Can Minister to Those Without Hope
But here’s the sobering truth: not everyone has that hope. There are people we know — neighbors, co-workers, even family — who have no assurance of what comes after death. And when crisis strikes, the absence of hope is devastating.
So how do we minister to them?
- By listening with compassion. Sometimes the greatest gift we can give is our presence. We don’t always need answers; we need ears and a heart willing to sit in the pain.
- By pointing gently to the Source of hope. Not with clichés, not with sermons, but with reminders of God’s love in Christ. Share how Jesus has carried you through your valleys.
- By embodying peace. In John 14:27, Jesus promised His peace. When we walk into a grieving home with calm assurance in Christ, people notice.
- By offering practical help. Meals, errands, babysitting — simple acts of kindness open doors for conversations about eternal hope.
- By praying boldly. Not just privately, but with them and for them. Prayer brings God’s presence near in a tangible way.
Ministering to those without hope doesn’t mean forcing belief. It means planting seeds. Some will sprout in ways we may never see, but God is faithful to water them.
The Hope That Holds Us
In the end, the hope of every Christian rests on a resurrected Savior. Jesus Himself said in John 11:25–26: “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; and whoever lives by believing in me will never die.”
That’s not just doctrine — it’s a lifeline. When our hearts ache, when the casket feels too heavy, when the house feels too quiet, we cling to this truth: Jesus defeated death. And because He lives, so will all who trust in Him.
So yes, grief will come. Tears will fall. But hopelessness? That is never on the table for the child of God. For to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord — and that changes everything.
A Prayer for the Grieving
Lord Jesus, You are our resurrection and our life. We thank You that death never has the final word because You conquered the grave. For those of us who are grieving today, bring comfort to our hearts, peace to our minds, and hope to our souls. Help us remember that our tears matter to You, and that our loved ones in Christ are safe in Your presence. Teach us how to grieve with hope and how to shine Your light to those who have none. In Your name, Amen.
